If you are going through a divorce, you know how stressful the process can be. After all, not only do you have to divide marital assets, but you also must plan for a post-divorce future. Still, you maintain some level of control over the situation. Your children, though, may not feel like they have the same luxury. 

Family researchers caution that divorce can have positive and negative effects on the young ones in your life. Unfortunately, during and after a divorce, many kids develop behavioral issues. Certain steps can help your children cope with divorce. Here are three of them: 

1. Be honest

Divorce can foster uncertainty and confusion in children of all ages. Therefore, you likely want to provide as much clarity as possible. While you do not have to discuss every detail of your marriage, you should try to be as honest as you can. You should also encourage the young ones in your family to be honest with you about how they feel. 

2. Avoid negative talk

You may be angry with your soon-to-be ex-spouse. You should, however, resist the temptation to deride your partner. Remember, you are apt to have a co-parenting relationship for the rest of your life. By showing that you continue to respect your partner, you do not put your kids in the unenviable position of having to choose sides. 

3. Offer professional help

You may have neither the expertise nor the neutrality to help your children deal with their emotions. Accordingly, if your kids need emotional support, you may want to consider enlisting the help of a qualified counselor or therapist. 

Even though your divorce may be hard on you, it has the potential to be earth-shattering for your children. Fortunately, because kids tend to be resilient, they are likely to bounce back quicker than you may expect. Nonetheless, with some effort, you can help your children adjust to their new world.